In life, everyone wants to succeed. Few of the people that think to succeed work toward their dreams while most of them don’t put in any effort despite the fact that action and reaction is always the same as said by scientists but keep dreaming and dreaming big dreams. Here, you will know the important stages in life you don’t have to miss.
If you want to succeed in life or in everything, you have to work toward it. Don’t just only dream a big dream. In fact, the best time you are dreaming is when your eyes are open. Being a scientist, we don’t believe in dreaming while sleeping.
If you have had a dream, keep it to yourself, don’t expose all your dreams to everybody because some people are a dream killer and they don’t want you to succeed.
Everything works with times and stages. Yes, of course, you can become a Bill Gate’s competitor tomorrow if you do what he did and don’t miss any valuable stage in your life.
In this article, we would discuss with you top important basic stages you have to know and don’t try to miss in your life. Every moment in your life is precious. One of the features of time and stage is that they are irreplaceable, that is, once they have passed, they have passed forever, hence, life doesn’t have part two.
You don’t want any stage in your life miss you? If yes, then please continue reading this article.
If you fail, nobody would like to hear from you but if you succeed, everybody will call you their man, uncle, brother, coach, mentor, etc. The bottom line is that nobody will be responsible for your failure.
Your success and future are in your hands, hence, don’t play with them because if they fall from your hands to the ground and get broken in the process, it is only you will have yourself to blame.
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After our longest study of a psychology of a man, we have notices important stages in life of every human being that he/she should not try to miss any one.
Now, let’s discuss stages in your life that you don’t have to miss.
11 stages of human life you don’t have to miss
- 0 to 6 years | neutral years.
- 6 to 12 years | must have started who to become.
- 12 to 18 year | must do something on your own.
- 18 to 24 years | must be proficient in your field.
- 24 to 30 years | must be your own boss and lead by example.
- 30 to 36 years | investor stage.
- 36 to 40 | a stage of bringing up others.
- 40 to 50 years | blessing others stage.
- 50 to 60 years | planning to rest.
- 60 to 70 years | rest and enjoy with your families.
- 70 years and above | rest, relaxed, sleep, in fact, you are retired.
0 to 6 years | neutral years
A years 0 to 6 in human’s life are neutral years. Between these years, you can’t know or do anything yourself.
From 0 to 6 years, you can run around your neighborhood nakedly. You don’t know the differences between a good and bad. It is your guidance or parents decide everything for you.
6 to 12 years | must have started planning who to become
6 to 12 years of every child is his/her foundation year, must have started planning who to become. Between your year 6 to 12, you must be sent to school to learn how to read and write.
Also in this stage, your parents must teach you their language, religion, culture, how to cook, dress, respect and elderly people, talk to someone, how to seek permission, how to request someone for something, etc.
From 6 to 12 years are a foundation years. Please dear parents, pay attention to these years for your child and don’t let him/her misspend it.
12 to 18 year | must do something on your own
Another important stage in the life of human being is 12 to 18 years which are a years that a child must do something on his/her own.
Once a citizen becomes 18 years, his/her government can send him/her to fight for war against his/her nation’s. This shows that you are capable to do something on your own.
If you don’t plan to build your future, you will help others build theirs.
18 to 24 years | must be proficient in your field
From 18 to 24 years of your life, you are expected to be proficient or professional in your career or field.
At this stage, you don’t have to be found in your parent’s house again. If you can’t feed others at this stage, try to be able to feed, clothe, shelter yourself, etc.
A lady or gentle man between 18 to 24 years is responsible to do something on his and her own.
24 to 30 years | must be your own boss and lead by example
From your 24 to 30 years, you must be a boss (director) of yourself and also show others that it is good for someone to be in control of his/herself.
At this stage, you can decide to marry if you have not been missing any of the stages in life that you don’t have to miss as we are explaining in this article.
From you 24 to 30 years, if you get elder siblings, then you must have people to call you uncle/aunt, so be an uncle/aunt to them, give them something but not receive from them (it is a shame).
30 to 36 years | investor stage
Before your 30 to 36 years, try to change your title from entrepreneur/businessman/woman to an investor. Investor is someone who invests to other people’s growth in the field they are grown in.
If your career is music, for instance, then start producing musicians from your 30 to 36 years. Also, if you are an educationist, then don’t rest and think you have done everything, hence, make other people achieve their educational dream.
Cherish your products or services or money in the name of making other people become someone. Indeed, God sent you to help others.
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36 to 40 | a stage of bringing up others
If you are a man or woman of age 36 to 40 years, this is the stage to bring up other people. Help other lives as you were helped before by others.
At this stage, make people become your friend, advice them the importance of dreaming big while working toward it. Provide scholarship for them, create business for them if you have the means or assist other people in making a plan like business plan or career plan.
40 to 50 years | blessing others stage
When a man or woman is between 40 t0 50 years, he or she is expected to own something which benefit the populace. At this stage, you have to bless other. We are not only referring your families but also all human beings in general.
It is not guilty for you as a woman to to feed men. In fact, you can feed your community, state, country or a world at large. There is no limitation of who or where you can bless.
One thing to know is that you must have to bless others as you were blessed before so that they would bless other generations in future.
Don’t be stingy, this world is not your home. If you claim it to be your home, then that means you are definitely exchanging it with heaven.
Now, let’s continue to the next stage in life you don’t have to miss.
50 to 60 years | planning to rest
There is time and stage for everything. Hence, from your fifty to sixty years is the stage that you have to start planning to give rest to yourself. Please don’t rest if you have missed any of your stages in life before.
At your 50 to 60 years, you will see your friends and some other of your mates that will start planning to rest or resting.
60 to 70 years | rest and enjoy with your families
A stage 60 to 70 in human’s life is a stage for him/her to rest and spend time with his/her families. Have fun around, joke with aspiring entrepreneurs and investors. Advice people on what they should do to become successful.
Your family members especially your wife and children, don’t make their case to be compromised. Spend quality with your family and be a good father to other people.
70 years and above | you are retired
From your 70 years and above, if God prolong your life to that stage, this is when you have to rest, relaxed, sleep and stop doing any work because you are retired.
Even though you still get strength to do work, you have to claim because you have done what should be done to rest at old age. According to Isaac of www.flashlearners.com, ”if you don’t want to carry biro today, you would carry barrow tomorrow”.
This quote directly refers to young men who don’t want to do work at their young age, surely, they would do extra ordinary work during their old age.
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Everything in life has time it has to be done. Being a human being, you have to dance to the tune of your age, else, your age will dance at you.
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